Hawaiian Names of the Day:

Keoki – George

Wene – Wayne

Kina – Diana

Luika – Louise


Well gee, I almost forgot that I had a website. It’s Friday morning about 10:30am, and I’m just killing time before my ride gets here. For the past two weeks I’ve been going out with my trainer Monkeyboy. We run just about every Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Fridays at 5am … yes, I said 5am … then we usually head out to the gym for some weight training. Well, this morning I felt lazy and didn’t make the run or the gym … it’s my day off damnit, I deserve a break. Besides, I didn’t really feel all that great this morning. About 6 weeks ago I was sparring with my son and I stepped wrong (luckily) and he kicked me good on the left side of my ribs towards the back … if I didn’t slip, he would have broken my ribs. I just ended up bruising them. Well, I think it was more than that because I still have a lot of pain in the same area. My doctor wants me to come in to take a few x-rays. Anyway, I’m waiting for MB to get out of a class he’s in. Then we’re off to the beach. I hate the beach. Actually I like the beach, I just hate being out in the sun. I had a very traumatic childhood where the sun is concerned. My mother didn’t believe in suntan lotion back in the 70’s, so I was burnt many times. They call it 2nd degree burns. I would have blisters the size of walnuts all over my back. That is why I don’t go to the beach very often.

I don’t know what to make of my friendship with MB. He’s been like my friend forever ... or at least it seems that way . We’ve gotten very close this past two weeks and I don’t want to ruin our friendship with sex. That’s what fuck friends are for. At the moment, my fuck friend is in a relationship so I can’t call him. I just realized that today, June 15, makes exactly 3 months since the last time I had it. I’m not really looking. I got more important things to take care of (more important than sex?). Going to work doesn’t help either … too many young guys there … young, cute, and a nice body like Jeremy. So, Andy is in a relationship now. He’s been with this girl for 6 months now … I give him another 2 months. For whatever reason it is, it always seems like his relationship lasts no more than 8 months … so I guess I’ll be seeing you, Andy, in two months. Haha. MB and I have already had “the talk”. I think it will be better to wait until my divorce is final before we get into anything … which by the way looks like it could be any time now.

I got Christopher’s Macy’s trip itinerary this past Tuesday night. I wanna go with him. I’m already planning a trip to NY for sometime in mid - late September. I’m wondering if I should just wait and go with him in November. I just don’t want to leave Sianna behind for Thanksgiving. She’ll still be with family, but it’ll be the first Thanksgiving away from her. I’d like to take her with us, but at $1550.00 a pop, it’s not really in my budget. I already had to put a $300 down payment for Chris Tuesday night with another $600 due on August 1st and the remaining balance (after fundraiser) due two weeks after that … and that’s just for Chris. He’ll be going to DC, then to Pennsylvania, then NY, overall an 8-day trip. The buzz is going around that either his Junior year or his Senior year he’ll be going to Japan or the Rose Bowl Parade, I think I’ll wait for that trip. I would love to go to Japan with the band, but I’d rather have Chris experience the opportunity to be in the two most prestigious parades in the world than go to Japan. He’s been leaning to march all this week. His first band practice was on Monday. I couldn’t wait to get home from work to find out what percussion instrument he was going to play. He wanted to audition for snare drums or quads. When I asked him, he said he got bells. Bells? I was hoping that he got a more masculine instrument. As I remember, the bells and the xylophone are the two most difficult things to play. So, I guess it was all right. They still haven’t auditioned yet, and he still wants to play the snare drums. Whatever he ends up with will be ok.

Well, MB is here; he says “hi”. Hope all of you have a terrific weekend. As for me, I know it’s going to be a blast. I have a bachelorette party tomorrow night and Sunday is Father’s Day … the last mega moneymaking day before the holiday’s creep up. Take care,

Hapa